Have you been trying to conceive for 12 months or more, without success?

Are you confused by all the conflicting information on the internet? 

Would you like to feel more supported with your efforts to get pregnant?

Fertility Support Workshops

• Get clear about the lifestyle Do’s and Don’ts to improve fertility
• Discover how to transform your environment into a fertility friendly zone
• Learn how to develop a Baby Making Mindset
• Uncover any unconscious barriers you may have to getting pregnant
• Learn techniques to cope with the highs and lows of trying to conceive
• Discover powerful relaxation techniques to relieve stress
• Explore mind/body techniques that can enhance fertility 
• The nutritional maze made easy
  
• Unlock the secrets of a positive mental attitude
  

Sign up for a series of 6 Fertility Support Workshops:

Only 10 places available

When:                  Mondays 7.30-9pm on:
                             22 Sept,  6 Oct,  20 Oct,  3 Nov,  17 Nov,  1 Dec 2014

Where:                The Sir Arthur Conan Doyle Centre
                             25 Palmerston Place, Edinburgh

How Much:         £15 per session

Book:                  Contact Doris Wylie on 07724 197627 or
                            email doriswylie@btinternet.com

Doris Wylie
Lothian Reflexology                        www.lothianreflexology.co.uk
07724 197627                                www.facebook.com/lothianreflexology

If you'd like to conceive, I'd ask you to look at all the highs and lows of your fertility journey. I know you'd do anything to get pregnant, so I'd like you to ask yourself ... are you trying too hard?

Trying might not be a useful thing to do, in fact it may actually hinder all your best efforts, because trying is about : endeavour, difficulty, becoming annoyed – or so the dictionary says.  Trying is all about chasing after your dream rather than waiting to receive it. Trying is all about forcing your heart's desire into being rather than allowing it to materialise in it's own good time.  Trying is about control rather than being in a state of flow.

Are you chasing your dream of having a baby rather than being ready to receive with open arms?  May I suggest that this might not be the best strategy.  And here’s why ...

Imaging you were to go fishing.  If you were to go fishing, you’d pack your kit – everything you need to land that prizewinning fish. You’d pick the perfect spot where you know the fish are likely to be. You’d set your bait and cast your line and then you’d sit back and relax and wait for the fish to bite. And while you’re waiting for the fish to bite you’d likely just enjoy being out in the fresh air, in the peace and quiet, giving yourself time to settle and release, and letting your worries and cares wash away.

What you wouldn’t do is: jump into the car with no equipment. Then stop at any old spot without checking first to find out how the fishing was. And race into the water fully clothed, trying to catch the fish with your bare hands! That would just be ridiculous, wouldn't it?

The very act of “trying”, creates a level of stress that is more likely to take you away from what you want instead of closer to it. You effectively create obstacles that wouldn’t otherwise exist as a consequence of your desire to increase your chances of getting pregnant.  You begin to get in your own way!  Can I just say that again, "You begin to get in your own way"!

This is not always an easy concept to process when your sole goal in life is to get pregnant, so please give it some thought.

May I suggest that you might choose to let go, stop "trying", chill and just wait for the fish to bite.  And if you need some help with your fertility journey, check out how Fertility Reflexology could help.

If you want more tips like this, you’ll find them in the Free Baby Making Mindset Club, just go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/1422257428013810/

I've been prompted by some recent facebook posts, to blog about gratitude.  Many of my facebook friends have been posting each day about what they're grateful for and it's really interesting to see that it's not the big things they choose, but the small, seemingly insignificant things that get onto their list.

In our busy lives, full of targets and deadlines, responsibilities and commitments, hopes and aspirations we can sometimes be so busy and stressed that we forget what we have to be grateful for.

When was the last time you paused to be grateful for the food you eat, or the home that shelters you, or the friends and family who support you?

It’s all too easy to take the things and people in our lives for granted, and it can be a real challenge to find time to stop and catch our breath, never mind to stop to cultivate gratitude.

But give it a try, you may find it well worth the effort.  Being grateful for what you’ve got allows you to:

• pay more attention to all the gifts you already have
• evaluate what you have without comparison to others
• appreciate that all you have is a real gift (especially the big stuff like friends, family, health, peace of mind – and sometimes even the bad stuff that might have made you stronger, wiser, kinder)
• have awareness and appreciation for the people and possessions and qualities that fill your life

Every day, write down three things that you’re grateful for and watch your peace of mind grow!